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Crossing between the posts

Having been recently reminded of the recordings of Clarissa Pinkola Estes (C.P.E. for short) with Sounds True (thanks symbolreader and dreamrly), I began revisiting the first part of her Mother Night series, called Walking in Two Worlds. She spends this episode discussing, what Toni Wolff called, the medial nature – the ability to walk in two worlds, to see and draw sustenance from the hidden world, the world of the soul or psyche and to navigate through one’s contemporary life with the hidden world close at hand.

She reviews several mythological tales and personalities, drawing our attention to their significance as a reality that exists within each of us – as aspects of our own medial nature. One such character is Tiresias, the blind hermaphroditic seer found in Greek Mythology. She describes Tiresias as one who though blind has the ability to ‘see’, and whose gift is a way of cutting through BS and getting to the heart of the matter. This is a crucial aspect within us, she says – a part of ourselves that will not mince words even though our heart or our sense of the future may be blinded to the truth. The fact that Tiresias is both male and female, C.P.E. says, also can open up our ability to see beyond gender, to observe others without judgement, to step into another’s shoes with understanding and compassion – to see beyond all of our differences – gender, race, culture, etc.

She suggests using ‘practices’ as a way of strengthening our connection with these aspects of our medial nature. While not defining what form a practice can take, she does offer some guidelines. By practice she is not referring to a repetitious way of learning a new skill or habit. Rather she uses the Spanish word ‘declamaciones’, which she defines as a way to sing or to speak aloud in order to remain close to or to remember something. Here the relationship to stay close to is this feeling of the sacred within. She also suggests that this practice is not the repetition of a phrase like a mantra in order to arrive at a calm center. Rather it is having the intent to find yourself in the center of fire and excitement. A characteristic of the medial nature she says is one of fire, charisma, passion – what excites the soul.

A blind seer who can be either male or female, is but one aspect of the medial nature within each of us. Tiresias’ story as one who can see beyond appearances is a healthy reminder to me as I tend too easily to get lost in the day to day illusion that I am only who I appear to be in the mirror. The ubiquitous influence of the dominant culture would have us all become cookie-cutter identities diminishing our ability to live in two worlds, or at least forgetting that we are able to do so and in fact must do so if we are to live as an alternate culture in one that is dead and dying. C.P.E.’s Mother Night series is a great tool to discover or be reacquainted with that deeper mystery of who we really are. I’m grateful to be listening to this series again.

If you want to hear more about the Mother Night series – Myths, Stories, and Teachings for Learning to See in the Dark, it is available through Sounds True.

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3 responses

  1. Thanks so much for this post – and for your thoughts specifically about Tiresius. He is one I tend to skip over, because his power makes me a little bit afraid. It is a power sometimes I am scared to acknowledge in myself, it is a responsibility I would mostly rather not have. But, your discussion does him great justice! The Mother Night series is truly transformational. I have been listening to the CD’s over and over again as I drive to and from work and around town, and I am already beginning to be changed by the stories and legends and Clarissa’s distillation of them. I connected most with the story of the corpse bride. I truly, truly love that story … and the ways the medial nature is reflected in it. Thank you!

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    September 14, 2013 at 2:57 am

    • Your words are a confirmation to me that I need to continue to listen and absorb CPE’s teaching. Thank you for sharing that. I have tended to listen to her commuting to work as well. 🙂 I appreciate so much your posts too and what they offer. May we all dive as deep as we dare.

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      September 14, 2013 at 4:21 am

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